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Oct 072013
 
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I once met a young man that told me that the thing he most wanted was love. He could not live without love.

This was a very shy young man who used to be the school geek and seen as a nerd. He was a brilliant and kind young man.

Yet, he had withdrawn from social life because he had reached a conclusion in his childhood that he was not worth it. That others would not be interested in getting to know him.

Having reached this conclusion, he settled into it as a reality. Fast forward twenty years, and he was living that childhood conclusion as a reality.

So as this man prayed to get love in his life, one of his cousins lost her job and moved in with him. She was very popular and had lots of girlfriends. She began to bring her friends to her apartment.

Guess what the young man did?

He withdrew even more. He shut himself in his bedroom every time a woman would visit his apartment.

His cousin, who really wanted to help him, asked him to help her clean the house for the visits. He refused. He didn’t care to clean the house, which in his solitude and low self-esteem, he had kept cluttered and messy.

This young man was not willing to care for his house, to clean a space to socialize with others.

He was not willing to help his cousin even though she was actually a messenger from the universe who was helping answer his prayers by bringing him into contact with women; any of whom could be the answer to his prayers for love.

He was not willing to receive or engage these new women.

In other words, the universe sent him the perfect way to get his dream, directly delivered to his home address!

  • …And still, he was not willing to receive it.
  • He was not willing to do anything to make it happen.
  • He was so scared that he refused to receive it,
  • He repelled it by refusing to change his routing or go beyond his very painful Comfort Zone. 
  • He resisted it actively! He felt in-control by staying in his miserable loneliness. So he preferred that to opening his heart to the unknown, even if this would bring him the love he so desperately craved.
  • He did not care.

So this young man did not take the first step to love others.

How did he expect others to love him?

Oh, that’s the problem, isn’t it?

  • Do you see the problem?
  • How may you be doing this?
  • How does this apply to whatever you desire and are praying for? How may you be repelling it?

Leave your comment below. I will respond.

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About Maria Mar

Maria Mar is a Sacred Storyteller and shaman who champions you to change your old limiting story to create the new story of your brilliance illuminating the world. She helps you awaken your magic, express your creative genius, embody your purpose and live your potential now.

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