Aug 112009
 
Why Toxic People don't like your Personal Boundaries

Reading Time: 4 minutes Why Toxic People don’t like your Personal Boundaries By Maria Mar(c) This post is a response to one of the questions asked in the Toxic Relationships Survey that I posted in Polldaddy. You asked the following question: Why do some people have such difficult time accepting and respecting boundaries that other people put in place? Why do they take it personally? Like everything else that relates to humans, there is no generic answer to this question. Toxic People come in several varieties. This means that there are, at least, half a dozen answers to this question. I will discuss three here. For more information, you can check the Toxic Relationships Self-help Kit. Comfort Dwellers These people ?who can be toxic, or not? know and accept only what is comfortable and safe for them, which means that It’s habitual, It’s part of their inherited beliefs and worldview, or It’s accepted by the mass trance, which is their only vision of reality. If your personal limits go beyond any of these familiar parameters, the Comfort Dwellers will find them alien, unreasonable and [Read more.]